tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-199928789912544963.post3817139719089296339..comments2012-05-21T09:05:13.091-04:00Comments on Just Another Day: I miss you.Heather Jeanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09498591663576054079noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-199928789912544963.post-82014776384225908452011-04-28T20:07:54.821-04:002011-04-28T20:07:54.821-04:00Hey Val, you are right it's not permanent. I g...Hey Val, you are right it's not permanent. I guess I am just disappointed at having to wait again. We had planned on try to conceive again last year before I went through all that I did. So placing Liam was especially hard. Anyhow, everything happens for a reason. <br /><br />Hey Ashleigh, thank you so much! I don't feel as guilty for feeling the way I do knowing that I am not the only one. I felt like I had to be the worst birth-mother ever!Heather Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09498591663576054079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-199928789912544963.post-45288952633707910232011-04-28T13:26:03.198-04:002011-04-28T13:26:03.198-04:00It can be very awkward at first, and it can last q...It can be very awkward at first, and it can last quite a while. It's so weird because he is your son, yet you are basically a stranger to him. Robbie is about to turn two next month and I have only recently lost the awkward feeling. Basically I faked it 'till I made it. I would force myself to hold him, scoop him up in my arms, kiss him, play with him, etc. until I stopped feeling so awkward.Not Just A Birth Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10520101148178388809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-199928789912544963.post-72580900120644554092011-04-27T22:04:03.543-04:002011-04-27T22:04:03.543-04:00Proud of you for writing your heart again...don...Proud of you for writing your heart again...don't be scared. You are still so young, and will not even be 30 yet when the Mirena is out. I got mine at 35, with no kids--for me the odds are against me having kids unless I take it out early, but for you there are plenty of years left. You could finish school, get a good career going--a lot of things can happen in five years--and then if you want to have kids closer together so they have playmates you could have two or three more at 30. Bailey may be an only child until he's 10 or 11, but he seems to like it just fine!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com